Of course she’s right; she’s always right.
The whole discussion started because we both receive the daily email from a group of female writers called “The Girlfriends Book Club.” Some of the entries are truly great –ranging from tips on publication, traditional publishing vs. self-publishing, and various other topics including the work/family balance thing. And then some of the posts are mediocre. But I’m always glad I get them and have the choice to read and learn, or to press the delete button.
The post that really struck A and me was by a woman named Maria Geraci, who discussed her “Secret Time Management Weapon.” Well what woman wouldn’t want to know about a weapon for managing time?? Geraci, like most writers, has a “day job” – one that she loves. She says that writing completes her as a person, but nursing is part of who she is. She is lucky to be able to juggle both careers, and she doesn’t take that for granted. The big piece of advice Geraci offers is that there is value in the fifteen-minute pocket of time. If you have 15-minutes, she says, you can write one sentence or maybe edit two. Even that little bit counts as progress. It’s all how you take advantage of the increments of time you’re given.
Much of what A and I do with and for each other follows this principle. With writing, there are no bosses to answer to – no one cares if we spend one hour or one minute on the writing. So we hold each other accountable. Weekly, we each set goals and check in with each other pretty much every day to see if we’ve met the goals or not. There’s accountability to each other which makes goal setting worthwhile, but we don’t have penalties for each other if goals aren’t met. Both of us are able to follow this system because one personality trait that we share is how hard we are on ourselves. Not meeting the goal of the day causes both of us to engage in more self-flagellation than we could ever envision inflicting on each other.
Time management is something A and I also discuss ad nauseum because I am a teacher in my “other” life and she is very active in Japanese/English translation, as well as journalism and other writing-related pursuits, including a recently debuted text book. We both have kids. So our time is precious and valuable to us and our families.
What was funny about the conversation however, is the different tack we take for writing. A is a wonderful writer, but she is also a crackerjack editor. She can labor over a sentence until its perfect, with the result being these beautiful sentences that flow magically into each other to weave a story or article. I, on the other hand, can spew out 1000 words in an hour without blinking – sometimes more, but when the story is done, so am I. I don’t mean to denigrate my own writing or anything, but let’s face it: editing and revising are not my strong suits. I would rather write a great story and hate taking the time to really refine it for the public. A would like to refine and refine and refine – though she has great ideas, getting them out of her head isn’t always so simple for her.
What that means for time management is that she needs to spend her chunks of time committed to initial writing and I need to schedule dedicated time for editing and revising. A different type of time management for both of us.
“Yeah,” says A, “Maybe we should pair up. You puke out the mass and I clean up the mess!”
And this is why I love her.
Fifteen minute chunks of time. We’re trying it – without the blowing of chunks, of course. But hey, if you can’t have fun when you’re writing and holding each other accountable, then what’s the point??